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The bond between two friends are on a totally different level of sacredness. They're unlike family because you don't get to choose who to be your mom or dad or your brother or sister. Same goes for cousins and other relatives. You're bound by blood. But friends are different. You started out as complete unrelated strangers. So to choose somebody and gradually progress from casual friends to opening up to them in bare honesty. To be completely vulnerable and reveal your true feelings and deepest thoughts, in fear of them rejecting you or disliking you or straight off brushing you off. That takes a lot of guts, at least for an introvert that has always been on the downside of making friends. Out of almost 8 billion people on this planet, a small city of 200-something thousand people living together, you pick these few people that you can count off two hands. Carefully choosing who to be close to after going through a few number of groups and you've finally found the right ones to click with. They share the same interests as you do, the same sort of living culture that you wanna have. That should mean something. Everyone should have understood that something so precious is hard to come by, and so everyone should have appreciated these friendships. But no, you rather abandon it and fucking IGNORE IT instead. You rather form your own inner circle and leave the rest of us as outsiders. That's more cool right? To just say fuck the rest, we're from a different generation, we don't give a fuck about your feelings, we only care for our own, so fuck off if you can't handle how we do things here. Way to go.

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